Rather than ‘trying’ not to be something like; needy, unhappy, or unmotivated why not instead proactively create an ecosystem of positive vibes where the negativity cannot thrive. If you are always late don’t ‘try Harder’ to be on time but instead make SPECIFIC changes that make being on time inevitable! Do the same for other things, nourish yourself to the point where you are so certainly stable in yourself where not even a typhoon could touchya. Create that space with-in. Separate yourself, isolate the isolation inside your skull, I am that, I am.